Well hi guys, i am posting something after 2 months now :). The last 2 months have been really great...so its January 2nd and now its 2010 :D. A new year is here. For the first time in my life, i did something i never did. I used to be awake for my new year eves all these years. But this time, i just switched off the phone and slept peacefully. Weird may be, but i felt like doing it and i did. The whole moment was all to myself and slept thru the new year's eve peacefully like a baby :). I think my mind was going thru all those beautiful things that happened in 2009. I have had some of the most beautiful as well as the most horrible times of my life till date. It was a mixed bag....but when i finally did a Balance sheet, i found that i had more loses in my hand than gains and i think for many its been the same. The world around me changed in many ways... some people whom i thought were close to me... i understood that they never were... it hurt a bit first...but then i realized that its a part of life :). Some people come into your life to make some changes and give you some happiness and then they just leave.... Leaving not even a single trace in your heart...just like that. Its very painful ...but then u get used to it.
Another lesson that i learned past year is to respect other's right to make a choice. You can never force a person to be close to you.. Sometimes you will want them to be close to you....but may be they cant. There is no way you can force them into it... Like God says in the movie 'Bruce almighty'... You can never tamper with free will :). Some decisions will be taken or not, only time can tell. What is impossible for you now, can be possible later and that's they way world goes :). So its nice to go with the flow... :). So i learned last year that keeping deep relations with people can at the end hurt you... so its always better to be at a safe distance. Intimacy in relations; especially if you love someone, should come only when you have a life time bond with that person...i would say if you are in love with a boy or girl, don't show over intimacy until you get married to that person. But let the other person know that you can be intimate once you get married :). Its a very tricky thing...but i think its safe :). For all relations, even if it isn't marriage, this thing applies. And one more thing guys... Do love others...What i said above doesn't mean that you should not love anybody. But just that, the line between an intimate relationship and a good friendship is very thin :). So an Emotionally Intelligent person will know how to balance these two perfectly. Don't expect anything in return when and if you are giving someone love :). Just give it awayyyyyyyy :).
Its today that i saw the movie '3 idiots' by Aamir. Its actually 'Five Point Someone' of Chetan Bhagath + Some aamir khan style and twists :). Its a really nice movie and i think all you people should watch it if you haven't watched till now :). The story tells something that we often forget.... our real talents. I know that there will be millions of people out there (especially in India) who would be engineers by profession and Artists or Photographers or anything of that sort by heart. May be you wanted to become a Writer, but your parents did not allow and rode you off to some entrance coaching class and you screwed up big time in the entrance exam and then you got a seat in management....etc etc. I would say there will be thousands of students out there who are dreaming their 'Parent's dream'... students who don't have a dream of their own. They may succeed in their profession. But the thing is that.... Your mind will be happy that you are settled and rich...but your heart.... It will never know what happiness is, its a fact. Or else why do you see every year, people who earn 50,000 and 70,000 salary resigning their jobs. Its just bcoz their mind and money cant stop their heart :). It craves for satisfaction. Find out what gives you the utmost happiness... and just go for it. May be you will earn low and slow....but definitely my friends, you will succeed :)... You will succeed in such a way that the whole world will just watch you and say 'HOW THE HELL DID HE DO THAT!!??'...Ha ha ha ha :D. Remember, measuring success with money is the worst thing you can ever do. As it is said in the movie '3 idiots'... 'Educate yourself to be Excellent'... and success will follow you :).
So guys...i am wishing you all a Happy, Beautiful and Prosperous 2010 :). Just live and Enjoy your life to the full :)...Satisfy you heart and you mind will get satisfied too :)....
